Confessions of a high-functioning middle-aged dope smoker

She’s been using cannabis for 35 years and has no intention of stopping any time soon – but she’d rather do it legally. I’ll tell you exactly who first got me into smoking dope. It was my friend’s brother’s uncle. Let’s call him Paul. He was a big-time dope grower in the north-east corner of … Read more

Grace Millane’s killer went on a date while her body lay on his floor. That date was with me

A woman who went on a Tinder date with the man who murdered Grace Millane tells her story, and issues a warning to other women to trust their instincts when something doesn’t feel right. First published on Newshub.co.nz I went on a date with Grace Millane’s killer while her body lay in his apartment. Yes, … Read more

My vagina the apartment, and other metaphors for living with vestibulitis

While sometimes you have to laugh at the bad advice and medical professionals ‘hooning their fingers next to your girly bits’, vestibulitis, a form of vulvodynia that affects the nerves of the vagina, is no joke. I’m standing in the health and beauty aisle at Countdown, staring at the wall of “feminine hygiene” products and … Read more